UNDERSTANDING THE MAN IN YOUR LIFE.

No one is perfect and everyone has flaws but every woman wishes to have a real man or at least wants to assume that his man is real. The definition of a real man varies from person to person. One persons real man might be another persons reject. Some characters of a real man can be tolerate if a man does not possess them but if your man lack so many of these, ladies !...don't chase just replace. You will spare yourself from so many miserable life later on. But the question is, are you also a real woman? If you want real man in your life, you must strive to be a real woman as well. Remember the law of attraction which says "you'll attract what you are." Straight to business, a real man possess the following characters:

A real man fears God - he doesn't have to be a religious but a man with couscous feelings is a keeper

A real man reads - yes yes and yes

A real man tender apology - Being a REAL MAN requires having the sense to admit you did something wrong and apologise.

A real man can't be stolen- never ever think that other women threw themselves to him that was why he cheated with you. No, a real man can handle temptations and if he is cheating isn't your fault. He is just not real.

A real man doesn't cheat - true and the study finds that if a man is cheating more likely that a woman he cheats to with is less attract than a current partner.

A real man is strong - not necessarily strong to fight people but strong to stand up for what he believes.

A real man is focused - on power, money and family. 

A real man doesn't gossip - Yes, he doesn't talk about things he doesn't know about or people he has never met.

A real man respect woman -  Women are a man's better half. He chooses to honor, love, respect, adore and be faithful to one woman

A real man keeps it simple - He avoids complicating matters. If he's smart enough to know big words, he uses them rarely and appropriately.

A real man never buys sex - In a relationship or not. He believes in making love rather dumping his load in any hole that is conveniently available.

A real man is proud of and not threatened by empowered woman in his life.

A real man can defend himself -  yes, you know what's missing in the world today? Leaders who have had to fight their way to the top.

A real man keeps his house in order - He makes sure everything is in working order, clean, and presentable

A real man strives to be a role model - He sets an example for his children to follow. It's not "do as I say, not as I do," but "do as I do."

A real man doesn't rape or hits women - he doesn't engage in rape or beat his woman.

A real man knows the importance of family - A real man keeps his family strong and passes on his family's history and traditions. He understands that his family's happiness comes first

A real man will add to your world, enhance it! Not take away.

A real man knows the difference between what's important and what isn't

A real man have taken their lumps and learned to defend themselves to succeed

A real man is not MACHO, he is honest and not full of ego 

A real man does not want POWER, CONTROL for the injustice.

A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences - yes they admit when they are wrong and deal with the outcomes. 

A real man will always choose the straight path no matter the "little thing" he is planning.

A real man makes his own fortune - This means not relying on family or connections for a leg up. Instead he creates his own destiny also if inherits goods from his forefathers takes his inheritance and turns it into 10 times what it was. 

In summary, A real man understands that women are to be cherished and treated with care and honour. He sees marriage as the opportunity to be a real-life superhero—he leaves behind his old identity and becomes a new person, dedicated to serving his wife and children. Although he will struggle at first, a true man who marries eventually understands that he can't fit through the narrow doorway to happiness if he tries to carry all of his toys with him. There is just enough room for him and his wife, arm in arm, committed to their marriage.

If you are frustrated with the man in your life, do your best to forgive him and start fresh. You can make the man in your life become real if you want to. Try to read all the articles I have posted in respect to relationship or marriage and the very special open letter written to you sometimes ago. After a while, if it's clear that he will not become a real man, leave him. You deserve better. 

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