DESPERATE WOMAN. WHY THE RUSH? 2

 It is shameful to become a single mother when your husband is still alive or go back to your parent house at the age of 26.

I can see the desperation in you. Some of your friends have got married. Whether the devil like it or not, you must leave your parent house or your rented apartment asap to meet your man for marriage. The question then is, is he ready for this?

Tell me, how's a man who can't take care of himself going to take care of family? How's he going to take care of you? And how about those babies you wanna make - how are they going to feed? Children don't understand fasting. They are not that spiritual. They EAT a lot! It's why they grow! And the last time I checked, supermarkets were still collecting money for baby food!

You want assurances of marriage from a guy without a plan? Isn't that an oxymoron? He has no plans for his own life! How's he going to have plans for yours?
You say he treats you like a queen because he serenades you with sweet nothing? Do you know the value of sweet nothings? Nothing, according to mentor LA.
Strangely you say he hardly says he loves you.... But his actions say so! Which actions?!
Ask from those who married such men about their experience. Some are still better years after divorce.

And who's going to pay school fees for kids? I hope you are hardworking. Never confuse maleness for manhood. As a woman you are going to be frustrated marrying a man without drive, desire, ambition or job. There will be constant fight over money and one of the biggest causes of problem in marriage is finance.

You'll make that young man's life so miserable he'll apply for summer vacation in Hades.
You want to get pregnant for him? Act of desperation! Don't even try it unless you wanna raise the baby yourself.

Or let me just say your desperation is coupled with covetousness yet your differences are obvious. He has the financial capabilities no doubt but there are so many things you can't stand about him. He essentially puts you down when you talk, he flirts around and when you complain he tortures you like criminal in police custody who doesn't want to cooperate. You know you don't love him but the financial gain. Isn't that risky for you to marry whom you don't love? Think about tomorrow unless you want to walk out as you walk in. I can see you writing a letter to divorce. Beware

You want to marry asap. Why? Because........

To be continued.....