WHY THE RUSH?

You have no idea what marriage is all about! Neither do your boyfriend! I'm sorry for being so blunt but I must tell you the truth in love.

The problem is not so much to them as you. Tell me, what's the desperation? You're only 25! You don't have the maturity for marriage. I'm not saying that just because of your age. There are mature 23 years old even 20. If there's nothing I know about life it is the fact that marriage can't solve insecurity. It only compounds it. An insecure man and woman who says "I do" is still an insecure person, only married. "I do" is not a transformer. You're afraid of being lonely and being alone. But throwing yourself at men only exposes you to selfish opportunists. And the fact that your mother is alone after divorce from your dad is not a matrimonial determinant of your fate. You can't live your life as antidote to your mom's existence and experience.

Despite the rush hour view of marriage, it is not something you rush into. Rush in may well be prepared for rush out! Larger percentage of the ladies out there are rushing into marriage compare to guys. I have a lot of example around.

 It is shameful to divorce or become a single mother when..........

To be continued.

Your loving friend, MA.